Letter Days

Last Saturday amongst the pile of junk mail, bills and ads, there hid a tiny thank you card. It was pleasing to read words off a piece of paper in a very long time.
Though it seems long time back, it wasn’t until 13 years ago that I even had an email id. I did live in a ‘letter’ world before that, where I could hold on to piece of paper, etched with thoughts of a mind and could re-read those words whenever I wished to. I always stacked every letter and greeting card I received in my own trunk – the shoebox.
I wrote my first letter to my Grandparents at age of 6. Though my letter hardly had 20 words, it always made their day. After all, which grandparent couldn’t like to read those scribbled words from their grand kids? They proudly commented on my handwriting and English language. Only I knew, how much by little mind had to struggle to put pen to paper. It typically began with the common line "How are you? Hope you are fine". I was taught at school to begin ‘Informal’ letters with those lines, so I blindly followed that pattern.
And then, while I was in  the middle school, I once wrote a write- up for the 'Penpals' page in the popular children’s magazine called 'Young Times’. I wrote this article in the hope of winning a prize – a pen & a bag of goodies, for my article but it so happen that instead I began to receive letters from kids around the world wanting to be my pen friend. Little did I know then what a pen friend meant, until those letters began pouring in. But it made me feel very important because now I received more mails than others in my household.
However, I liked the whole idea of having pen friends. We shared with each other our likes, dislikes, day to day interests and family pictures. But sadly as I grew older, laziness impeded me from continuing my friendship via drops of ink and soon those friendships became history.
Though I like the fastness of emails, there are times I wish I had a piece of paper to hang on to. Especially in my case, mails once read, if not important, lands in the ‘Trash’ folder in seconds. Oh! How I miss my letter days.
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Coming of Neel

I was always cynical about striding into Motherhood because I questioned my motherliness. I love to sleep and the thought of forgoing my 8 hours of beauty sleep was unimaginable. I often wondered if I would place sleeping over taking care of my baby. And talking about changing the diaper; it didn't seem like an activity I ever wanted to do.

But then, when the doctor dropped Baby Neel into my hands, Oh! My God, I was as thrilled as a kid in a candy shop. It was hard to digest, in that millisecond I had become a mom and that now I have a son.
The first 3 weeks of my new role was frustrating and tiring. I walked around like a zombie and hardly had much energy for Neel other than feeding him. But once my energy level bounced back, it was amazing how we both fabricated well into each other’s lives in the weeks that followed.
Bathing time with Neel is my favorite time of the day. My little cherub loves being in water and ardently listens to me sing to him. Though I am no nightingale he treats me like one through bursts of laughter and squeals. 

My son is also an entertainer. We all love to watch him play for hours. Though my little angel is too tiny to communicate, he still loves to babble and responds to us in his own baby language every time we interact with him.
It's also amazing how quickly he’s growing. I remember when Neel was 5 days old, I cried that night and told my DH "He is growing so fast”. My DH thought I was crazy. Oh! well, partly I was from all the hormonal changes but I also envisaged him not being under the same roof as us when he leaves for under grad.
Sigh! I am going to badly miss all these days; wish I could stop time ... Sniff! Sniff!
My dear mom once said, “A woman's life is incomplete without becoming a mother”. I cannot agree any less with her. I have come to realize that a baby truly changes your priorities and sleep is no longer a priority in my case and diaper changing is no big deal. Today, my son means world to me.
Like some great mind said, "There’s only one pretty baby in the world, and every mother has it."
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